Dear Linda, Mindy,Missy, My heart breaks for you all, remembering all the good times we had together in Pennsylvania with our children. Phil was a fantastic friend to everyone and a good role model for my son. Remember the time he gave Petey his army gear to wear for Halloween? Petey was so proud. Take care Linda and I'll leave my phone # here privately. Call if you care to. I've been through it all and am helping lead a grief group. I will be glad to talk to you anytime. (724)359-5230. Love you like family. Carole